Showing posts from November, 2014

How Do I Know If I Found A Right Relationship

Well I did it again I copied Marc and added a few Christian touches to 9 GOOD SIGNS YOU ARE IN A RIGHT RELATIONSHIP. I was a pastor and biblical counselor for a number of years and saw some pretty awful relationships and was in a couple of them myself-some my fault others her fault and it cuts it both ways SOMETIMES. It takes hard work and real love to make a relationship work. Constantly growing as a person, as a believer in Jesus Christ is essential. The first example of what a marriage should be like is in the example of the church (that's us-the bride not a building or organization) and Jesus Christ (the Groom-Savior and Lord he paid it all so we could live free from sin forever-don't let anyone beat you over the head with how hard you have to work to get to heaven-GRACE-God's Riches AT Christ's Expense) If you are not enjoying that Grace then stop what you are doing and ask Jesus into your heart and let his Holy Spirit change you from the inside out. If you meant …

8 Things You Never Should Give Up In A Relationship

Normally I like to write my own blogs but this one by Marc Chernoff just nails it for you ladies in a relationship with a covert or overt tyrant! Please take this to heart, your very life could depend on it. As a Christian there are some things I cannot agree with entirely in Marc's words but I would put my blessing on 90% of what is said here. There are TOXIC people in the world who are absolutely bent on making you miserable and subjecting you, trying to make you in their image of what or who you should be...don't put up with it! Recognized abuse for what it is and make no excuses for your abuser!

“It’s been exactly ten years since my controlling, abusive ex-fiancĂ© sold my favorite guitar which cost almost $1,000 and took me ages to save for.  He sold it on the day I broke up with him.  When I went to pick up my belongings, he was proud that he had sold it to a local pawnshop.  Luckily, I managed to track down the guy that bought it from the pawnshop.  The guy was really swe…

What Could Happen If Parents Live A Double Standard?

Finally a media person tells the truth about Mike Brown's parents! They taught Mike that he was above the law and they STILL live that way even today! Mike Brown and his friend were teen thugs not a duo to idolize!
Michael Brown case: Ferguson teen's parents and double standards By  Published November 15, 2014
On October 24th, Benjamin Crump, an attorney for Michael Brown's family, told MSNBC that "All Michael Brown's family has asked from day one is equal justice for their son. The concept of due process, this notion of all the laws in the legal proceedings being fair for them, just like it is for a police officer." I have to wonder how they define fair. A grand jury has been reviewing evidence in the case against Officer Darren Wilson for the death of Michael Brown since August 20.   Ms. McSpadden is being investigated for felony robbery in an incident involving her mother-in-law and the sale of "Justice for Mike Brown" mer…