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12 COMMANDMENTS I GIVE UNTO THEE OR THE IMPORTANCE OF PICKING A REAL CHRISTIAN HUSBAND FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

Statistics show that one out of every two marriages ends in divorce in America. This is frightening, appalling, and heart breaking! What has happened to the sacred institution of marriage that is ordained of God? How long can our nation survive when it is crumbling within like a decaying skyscraper? When our homes are gone, everything will be lost because the home is the foundation of our society. As the home goes, so goes the nation, and as the nation goes, so goes the world. All it takes to establish and sustain a happy home is a Christian husband and a Christian wife who are totally committed to Jesus as evident by their walk and then to each other.

THIS POST IS FOR YOU LADIES:
Therein lies the problem. Most of you ladies pick "churched" mates OR SO-CALLED GOOD MEN, thinking they are the real deal when in fact you have not truly examined them closely to see if they live the walk instead of just talking the talk. How do you pick the real thing?
Here you go gals ...here are th…

DOMESTIC ABUSE – NO “HAPPILY EVER AFTER”

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Unfortunately there are no happy endings when it comes to domestic violence...ladies that includes verbal violence because it steals your joy and sucks the life out of you over a period of time. Verbal abuse actually does as much damage or more than physical abuse. Both lead to misery and life-long pain that will never go away and does not affect only you because your children will repeat what they have heard and seen. This article is by Terry Loving and so very important that women understand that ABUSE IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE IN ANY FORM BY GOD!!!King James 2000 Bible (©2003) “For he flatters himself in his own eyes, until his iniquity is found to be hateful. (I wrote this post a while back for my website – the message is worthy of repeating) I can remember stories, those things my mother said She told me fairy tales before I went to bed She spoke of happy endings then tucked me in real tight She turned my night light on and kissed my face good night My mind would fill with visions of …

Butterfly Or Caterpillar? Transforming vs Conforming

Romans 12:2 (KJV) ~ And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. 

I think the biggest blessing comes to us when we are  asked this question, “Do you really know that you are a child of God?” Now the enormity of that statement did not sink in right away. I had not perceived it in my spirit. My position was the same as that of King David, who before he had a revelation, before he perceived that he was king, never really knew the enormity of what it meant that he was a King. The Bible says in 1 Chronicles 14:2 (KJV), “And David perceived that the LORD had confirmed him king over Israel , for his kingdom was lifted up on high, because of his people Israel .” The revelation had dropped from his head to his heart. When I understood and perceived that I was a child of God, it was then, and only then, that I began to look at things differently. My old mindset was freed from…

CAN YOU HELP A RELATIVE LEAVE HER ABUSIVE HUSBAND?

According to the American Institute on Domestic Violence, millions of women are abused every year by their boyfriends or husbands. If one of your relatives is a victim of abuse, you may wonder why she doesn't leave. Many women hesitate to leave an abusive husband for a number of reasons. However, there are steps you can take to convince your relative she needs to leave for her safety, sanity and self-respect.
Dealing with an abusive husband is generally not an easy task for any woman to deal with. However, this is not an environment you should stay in and no woman or person deserves to be abused by a spouse.THE PROBLEM SEEMS TO BE IN GETTING A WOMAN TO ADMIT SHE ALWAYS ABUSED EVEN WHEN IT IS OBVIOUS TO THOSE WHO SEE IT, BECAUSE ABUSE IS A CONSTANT CYCLE ACCORDING TO THE AIDV, THE MAYO CLINIC, AND DR. IRENE AT DR. IRENE'S VERBAL ABUSE SITE: 

http://www.drirene.com/cyclesof.htm

The classic abusive relationship is characterized by a three-stage cycle that may or may not be visible t…