Wisdom And Best Laid Plans

Have you ever talked to or tried to reason with a fool? Their reasoning is...well...UNREASONABLE! The Bible warns throughout Proverbs that avoiding a fool is the best remedy to prevent confusion and heartache. Perhaps you know one intimately? The New Testament gives us practical ways to understand that a fool's reasoning is folly and not to follow it. Fools have no grace for those of the faith...you will never measure up to a fool's reasoning and yet they do not hold the same standard for themselves. In other words they lack WISDOM, the most important kind...Biblical WISDOM!

To suggest that wisdom is always balanced seems to me to be a bit, well, unbalanced. Whoever first uttered the words of wisdom, “moderation in all things,” should, I believe, have healed himself. All things? Isn’t that a bit extreme? In like manner, wisdom is almost always balanced. We need to measure the wisdom of looking before we leap with the equally potent conviction that he who hesitates is lost. We need to remember, as we loudly affirm that we ought not answer a fool according to his folly lest we be like him, that we ought to answer a fool according to his folly lest he become wise in his own eyes (Prov. 26: 4–5).

Jesus, who is wisdom incarnate, wisely tells us that we must consider the cost. Only a fool would destroy his household and those within it by living out condescending behavior but it is done every day in homes all around the world. Don't believe it can happen in your own home...just listen to the conversation of your children and what they watch on TV and where they go on YouTube for entertainment. How do you suppose Jackass, the movie, got such a high following? Emergency rooms are filled with fools who can't help but demonstrate their prowess at being IDIOTS! Where does the Shepherd of your home go to gain his wisdom to pass on to your children? Is prayer and reading of the Word an important part of daily family activity? Only a fool would set about the business of building a tower without first determining if he had the money to complete the job. You see that also applies to counting the cost of growing and nurturing a family. What kind of college education have you and your children discussed? Are they heading in a direction that will be pleasing to God? Will they grow in stature and wisdom in the same manner that our Lord grew up or become painfully materialistic and spoiled? Planning for our future, according to Jesus, is good and proper. Out of this wisdom we have with all due wisdom extrapolated our calling to set goals before us, to look beyond today, to discern the times. This same Jesus, however, speaking through James His brother, says, “Come now, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit’ — yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.’ As it is, you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil” (James 4:13–16). Are you boasting in your arrogance that you have stored up for yourselves treasures on earth or humbled yourselves and submitted to God's plan of building treasures in heaven?

It is a great thing to plan, to lay down your hopes and aspirations. It is a great thing, in fact, not just to hope for a particular destination but to map out the steps that will get you there. It is, however, incumbent upon us to do this as creatures, as vapor. We must remember our frame. We must remember that we simply propose while God disposes. If the Lord wills, we will do this or that. If, however, the Lord wills differently, His plans will supersede our own. Not only ought we to pray, “nevertheless not my will but Thine be done,” but we ought also to pray knowing that His sovereign will, in fact, will be done.

If we would plan in accordance with God’s plan, we must first know what God’s plan is. As an example: He has not told us that we will go into such and such a city, buy and sell and make a profit. He has not told us that my 17 year-old daughter will marry her 18 year-old neighbor, and the two of them will build their home on the back side of our property. He has not told us that my 14 year-old son will thrive in a particular line of work, and will, along with his own as yet unborn children, seize that whole industry for the kingdom of God. He has not told us that once we have seized this industry we will cooperate with the plan set in motion by Brother Jones fifty years ago so that we can together seize that other cultural doodad for Jesus. It is a shameful thing to be shortsighted. It is likewise an arrogant thing to boast that you can see far into the future.

God’s secret plan is just that — secret. We don’t know His strategy, how He will move in this coming year, decade, or century. God’s revealed plan is, well, that which has been revealed. He has told us what is required of us — that we do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with Him (Mic. 6:8). He has told us the sum of the matter — that we should fear Him and obey all that He commands (Eccl. 12:13). He has called us to go into all the nations, baptizing them, teaching them to obey all that He has commanded (Matt. 28:19–20). He has told us that we ought not worry about what we will eat or about what our great grandchildren will eat. The Gentiles worry about such things. No, our calling is to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness (Matt. 6:33). Our prayer and plan should be that every day we would grow more faithful in this calling, that I would set the example in my own life and in turn encourage those of my household in the same direction. Our prayer and plan should be that all of us, as long as life should last, will encourage our children and their children along this same path. He may call our children to the mission field. He may call us to the mission field. He may call us to suffer this illness or that. He may call all or some of us home. But as long as we live, we are all called to grow in grace and wisdom.

Here is why wisdom dictates that we be equally yoked with a mate who shares our convictions to serve the Lord Jesus Christ. This, we highly resolve — that we would seek first His kingdom and His righteousness. We resolve to teach our children to do the same by example, and to teach their children to do the same. If we would but keep this one resolution, we would witness worldwide revolution. Better yet, we would enjoy a new reformation. May God give us the grace and wisdom on how to be extremists where we ought to be yet seasoned with love for those to whom we are sent to speak to, that we would always seek out wisdom and rest in His finished work.

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  1. Very true words. It can't be said enough how important it is walk in wisdom and God's will and to choose a believing partner who will seek to serve Him along with you.

  2. Ted, being equally yoked is such an important Biblical principle, and yet, it is not taken as seriously as it should be by many Christians. Even with that said, Christians need to know that God did not promise that there would not be trials and pain with our spouse who is indeed a believer. We are all, as believers, the target of Satan's temptations and sometimes the closer we walk with Jesus, the harder Satan tries to cause us stumble in our walk. The key, as you said, is to remember that God is always in control and His will supercedes our own. He promises to never leave us even in the worst trials we face as Christians. We can rest on that promise! Thank you :)


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